Ten years ago today, I did something that I swore to anyone that would listen I would NEVER do. I got married. Again. I don't often tell people that I've been married not once, not twice, but three times. Yeah, I know. That's a lot. I'm not proud of it, it's just a fact.
After my second marriage failed, I decided that I should maybe let the idea of being part of a couple go. I worked a full time job, did my best to raise my kids and spent my spare time working in my yard and garden. It wasn't a grand life, but it was a life. And then something amazing happened. Just when I stopped looking for Mr. Right, Mr. Smart walked into my life. It's such a good "never give up on love" story and I tell it every chance I get.
We were married here at Rosehaven on a beautiful sunny day surrounded by our friends and family. We had our first dance on the patio right outside the kitchen window. I love that memory. And I love the way that every time I'm in our yard I can picture the day so perfectly.
I took a huge chance when I came here to be with Ken. My track record wasn't good, I didn't really trust myself anymore and my self-esteem was shot. But something told me that I had to do this, to take this chance. It took everything I had to step out of my comfort zone and step out into the world. I can't believe all that I would have missed if I had stayed where I was.
It's a wonderful thing when you marry someone that was your friend first. And there is a certain comfort that comes from finding a friend to love you in the second half of your life. After knowing how bad relationships can be, I can fully appreciate how wonderful this one is. And I can honestly say that when I wake up and see my husband next to me I think "Wow, I can't believe I'm married to Ken Smart!" I LOVE this boy.
So on this day I honor my husband and offer him a heart full of love and gratitude for being the best friend I've ever had. I love you Mr. Smart and appreciate all that you do for me and they way you don't run when I say things like "hey, I've got an idea!". Thank you for making me Mrs. Smart.
After my second marriage failed, I decided that I should maybe let the idea of being part of a couple go. I worked a full time job, did my best to raise my kids and spent my spare time working in my yard and garden. It wasn't a grand life, but it was a life. And then something amazing happened. Just when I stopped looking for Mr. Right, Mr. Smart walked into my life. It's such a good "never give up on love" story and I tell it every chance I get.
We were married here at Rosehaven on a beautiful sunny day surrounded by our friends and family. We had our first dance on the patio right outside the kitchen window. I love that memory. And I love the way that every time I'm in our yard I can picture the day so perfectly.
I took a huge chance when I came here to be with Ken. My track record wasn't good, I didn't really trust myself anymore and my self-esteem was shot. But something told me that I had to do this, to take this chance. It took everything I had to step out of my comfort zone and step out into the world. I can't believe all that I would have missed if I had stayed where I was.
It's a wonderful thing when you marry someone that was your friend first. And there is a certain comfort that comes from finding a friend to love you in the second half of your life. After knowing how bad relationships can be, I can fully appreciate how wonderful this one is. And I can honestly say that when I wake up and see my husband next to me I think "Wow, I can't believe I'm married to Ken Smart!" I LOVE this boy.
So on this day I honor my husband and offer him a heart full of love and gratitude for being the best friend I've ever had. I love you Mr. Smart and appreciate all that you do for me and they way you don't run when I say things like "hey, I've got an idea!". Thank you for making me Mrs. Smart.
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| Ken and Wren May 2002 |
Congratulations! You two are a balanced match.
ReplyDeleteThank you Diana!
DeleteWell how sweet is this post ;) Happy anniversary to you both.
ReplyDeleteThat's the sweetest post I've read in a while. It's never too late for love to find you, even if you're not looking! Congrats and happy anniversary.
ReplyDeleteI love your love story! It warms me heart to see you so happy! I love you, my friend!
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